And then you take action:\u00a0\u201cI’ll just find a workaround… get somebody else to do the work… rethink responsibilities… initiate discipline.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n We often don’t even realize that we create stories about people in our heads, especially when they disappoint us. This happens all the time. We see a behavior, assume we know why the other person acted a certain way, and react based on those assumptions.<\/p>\n But many difficulties can be avoided by having a clarifying discussion. Though people usually intend<\/em> to do the right thing, sometimes something gets scrambled or misinterpreted along the way, and the impact is far from what they intended.<\/p>\n The only way to know what someone intended is to ask<\/em> them \u2014 and the only way to let a person know their impact is to tell<\/em> them. These important conversations rarely happen, though, and we move through our days in a tangle of misperceptions and actions, based on incorrect assumptions.<\/p>\n So, how do you, as a leader, tackle difficult conversations<\/a> to find out why a person chose to behave a certain way? We recommend using our research-based, widely-recognized method for delivering feedback, Situation-Behavior-Impact, or (SBI)\u2122.<\/strong><\/p>\n The benefits of using SBI to give feedback and explore impact vs. intent are clear:<\/strong> Using the SBI method helps both<\/em> parties become more comfortable with the feedback process. Our research shows<\/a> that SBI reduces anxiety around giving feedback, as well as the defensiveness of the recipient in hearing it. We also found that employees rate managers as more effective when they give feedback more frequently.<\/p>\n The Situation-Behavior-Impact (SBI) method for giving someone feedback is simple and direct. You simply:<\/p>\n The SBI feedback model is helpful when holding talent conversations<\/a> with employees or when giving different types of feedback<\/a>, as in these examples:<\/p>\n Describe the specific situation in which the behavior occurred.<\/strong> Avoid generalities, such as \u201clast week,\u201d as that can lead to confusion.<\/p>\n Describe the actual, observable behavior.<\/strong> Keep to the facts. Don\u2019t insert any opinions or judgements.<\/p>\n Describe the results of the behavior.<\/strong> Because you\u2019re describing exactly what happened and explaining your true feelings \u2014 not passing judgement \u2014 the listener is more likely to absorb what you\u2019re saying. If the effect was positive, words like \u201chappy\u201d or \u201cproud\u201d help underscore the success of the behavior. If the effect of the behavior was negative and needs to stop, you can use words such as \u201ctroubled\u201d or \u201cworried.\u201d<\/p>\n The success of Situation-Behavior-Impact\u00a0is enhanced when the feedback, which is one-way, is accompanied by an inquiry about intent, which makes the conversation two-way.<\/p>\n Extending the Situation-Behavior-Impact (SBI) tool for delivering feedback to be Situation-Behavior-Impact-Intent <\/em>(SBII) allows you to have a conversation to learn more about the intentions behind a person\u2019s actions or behaviors. Inquiring about intent can demonstrate compassionate leadership<\/a> and prevents veering off in the wrong direction based on faulty assumptions. To do this, simply add a final step to Situation-Behavior-Impact:<\/span><\/p>\n Inquire about the person\u2019s original intentions. <\/strong>Inviting them to share where they were coming from helps you understand more about the other person’s experience of the situation and explore <\/span>the gap together between intentions vs. impact, building greater trust and understanding.<\/p>\n Then actively listen<\/a> to the other person as they share their perspective. Simple solutions usually follow.<\/p>\n Asking about intent is also where good coaching starts. When you inquire about intention, motivation, or what\u2019s behind an action, you\u2019re essentially engaging in a coaching conversation<\/a> \u2014 one that can make a positive difference well before a performance review or disciplinary conversation.<\/p>\n So, the next time you need to give someone some feedback, rather than making assumptions, just have a conversation with them. And remember to use Situation-Behavior-Impact-Intent (SBII).<\/p>\n Upskill your team\u2019s ability to give difficult feedback holding candid conversations and using SBII with a customized learning journey for your leaders using our research-based modules. Available leadership topics<\/a> include Conflict Resolution, Emotional Intelligence, Feedback That Works<\/a>, Listening to Understand, Psychological Safety, and more.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Want to give more effective feedback? 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\nProviding feedback to others about their performance is a key developmental experience. Learn how to make the feedback you give even more effective<\/a> so that others can benefit from your message.<\/div>\nBuild Trust By Exploring Intent vs. Impact With SBII<\/h2>\n
Extend the SBI Method for Feedback to Include Inquiring About Intent<\/h3>\n
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